Plan Your Wedding Stress-Free
Planning your wedding sounds like a lot of fun . . . until you’re actually doing it. Sure, there are some nice things about the planning process, but it’s a far cry from the romantic, exciting time most people imagine. After all, planning a wedding is just like planning any other event, which means there’s a lot of logistics to take care of and stress to manage.
And, if you’re not careful, that stress can affect the reason you’re planning a wedding in the first place: your relationship! Here are some things you can do to pull off a great wedding without ruining your relationship in the process.
Split the Responsibility
A lot of the time, one person in a relationship is more take-charge, while the other is more laid-back. And, it’s common for the take-charge person to end up being the main wedding planner. However, no matter your dynamics, both halves of a couple should contribute at least something to the planning.
If one person is doing all of the work, it’s easy for that person to feel resentful or taken for granted. And, sometimes, even the person who isn’t planning can feel left out and like their opinion doesn’t matter. To avoid these relationship-damaging feelings, sit down and talk about responsibilities before you even start planning the wedding. Decide who wants to do what and shake on it. And, while you don’t necessarily have to split the duties 50/50, the closer you get, the better!
Take Care of Yourselves
As the initial excitement over wedding planning gives way to stress, make sure you and your partner continue to take good care of yourselves. Eat healthily, get enough rest, and prioritize your mental and physical health above all else.
When you start getting worn down, you may find yourselves snapping at one another and bickering, and that’s no way to plan for the best day of your life! By caring for yourselves, you’ll not only be more capable and adept at planning, but you’ll also keep your relationship strong and happy.
Take Some Time Away
Finally, remember that it’s okay to take a day or two off where you don’t think or talk about the wedding and, instead, just spend some time together, relaxing and unwinding. If you’re getting married on Maui, for example, take a day off from your planning to walk along the beaches and have a nice dinner out. In fact, no matter where you are, don’t hesitate to do something just for you. After all, you have to keep your relationship alive and healthy if you’re going to have a wedding to plan!
