Being the Perfect “Plus One”
Being invited to a wedding as a “plus one” is exciting. It means that someone cares enough about you to bring you along to the wedding of a friend or family member. However, if you accept this invitation, recognize that you do have some responsibility in terms of etiquette.
Accept Quickly
First things first, if you’d like to attend the wedding, make sure you say yes as soon as possible. And, once you do, encourage your invitee to RSVP to the wedding right away using the method preferred by the bride and groom. A quick acceptance and RSVP ensures the couple will have plenty of time to plan for your attendance at the wedding. Whether that means ensuring they have an extra dinner plate, putting your name on the placecards, or anything in between, it’s your job to give the couple adequate notice that you’ll be in attendance.
Contribute to the Gift
The person who was formally invited to the wedding is typically expected to bring a gift of some kind. As a plus one, you don’t really have this obligation, but it’s definitely polite to contribute to the gift in some way. Or, if you know the couple at least a little or feel comfortable, you can purchase a small gift of your own. While not required, it’s a kindness that is sure to be appreciated.
Dress with Care
Finally, keep in mind that you should always dress appropriately for the wedding, even if you won’t know most of the people there. When in doubt about the dress code, ask the person who invited you. If they’re unsure, have them ask the bride and groom. That way, you can ensure that, whatever you wear, you’ll blend in with the rest of the guests and won’t draw attention away from the main focus of the day: the bride and groom.
Being invited to a wedding is always a compliment.Just make sure you handle it the right way so that everyone has a great time.
