Tips for a Magical First Year of Marriage
Weddings are exciting. However, they’re more than just a fun day. They’re a day when you make a major commitment, one that will, ideally, last a lifetime. So, while you’re busy planning your big day, you should also be prepping for your actual marriage. After all, happy marriages require hard work and effort. But, if you’re both willing to do your part and build a strong foundation, you can have a magical first year of marriage and plenty of great years after that. These simple tips will get you started.
Commit to a Date Night
First things first, keep the romance alive. Make time for each other no matter how busy life gets. Regardless of the responsibilities you’re facing, plan out a regular date night. This can be weekly, monthly, or even just a few times a year, depending on your schedules. The key is to spend time together, just the two of you, in a meaningful way. Whether that means a romantic dinner, going to a movie, or just playing video games on the couch, it will help you stay close and bonded. For best results, get into this habit during the wedding planning phase and continue it indefinitely.
Communicate
Even the happiest couples will have disagreements, especially early on in a marriage. What matters is how you handle them. When there’s an issue or a concern, voice it to your spouse in a kind, loving way, and encourage them to do the same. If you can be open and honest about issues or problems and talk through them, this will strengthen your marriage significantly. If you allow things to fester, on the other hand, resentment and anger can build with disastrous results.
Take Time for Yourself
Making time for your partner is important. But, it’s equally important to take some time for yourself. If you spend every minute with your partner, you can start to lose yourself, which isn’t healthy for you or your marriage. So, don’t stop engaging in activities you loved pre-marriage. Spend time with friends. You can come back home to your spouse with stories to share and renewed mental health and clarity.
Marriage is a wonderful thing, but it does take work. Get yours off on the right foot with these tips. And, remember, above all else, to love and respect your spouse and yourself. That matters more than anything else.
