Wedding Thank-You Notes: What You Need to Know
Once your wedding day is over, it’s time to thank all the people who made it possible. Whether they traveled to Maui or some other locale or just drove down the street, they still deserve appreciation. And, while you may be tempted to send a quick email or text, an old-fashioned card is the way to go. Don’t just shove one in an envelope and call it a day, though. Keep these tips in mind.
Personalize It
To start with, take the time to personalize each and every card you send. After all, your guests took the time to shop for your wedding gifts! You don’t have to write anything too long or spend a ton of time. Just say a quick thank you and add the person’s name. You may also want to thank them for their specific gift or for something special they did to make your big day more meaningful.
Do It Soon
Don’t put off sending out those thank you notes. Otherwise, you might never get around to it or might do it way after the fact, which is considered quite rude. Ideally, you should send the notes as soon as your honeymoon is over. Even better yet, you and your new spouse can write the thank you notes together as part of your honeymoon celebrations. Believe it or not, it can actually be fun!
Make it Nice
If you’re like most couples, your wedding cost a lot. Now that it’s over, you might consider opting for cheap cards and envelopes. That’s not a good look, though. Even if it costs you a little more, choose cards and envelopes that are every bit as pretty as your wedding invitations. Some smart brides and grooms will even buy the thank you stationery at the same time they buy the wedding invites.
Saying thank you is a gracious way to let your loved ones know how much you appreciate them. So, don’t be selfish or forgetful. Instead, be kind and thoughtful by not only sending thank you notes, but following these tips when you do.
