Get The Word Out About Your Wedding Registry
Wedding registries are one of the best things to happen to weddings in a long time. They allow you to politely tell your guests what you want and don’t want. They’re your chance to ask for things you need without being rude or pushy. The key is just to make sure everyone knows about your registry and how to access it. Fortunately, that’s not hard to do.
Use Your Bridal Shower Invitations
To get the ball rolling, register as early as possible. This will give you time to choose where you want to register and what items you truly want and need. Plus, it will allow you or your maid of honor to include your registry information on the bridal shower invitations.
Answer Honestly
When you tell people about your wedding, they may ask you if you’re registered and where. Your gut instinct may be to say, “Oh, don’t worry about that” or “You don’t have to get us anything.” But, honestly, if people ask you about your registry directly, it’s okay to tell them the details. They wouldn’t have brought it up if they didn’t want to get you a gift.
Provide A Link
These days, most couples have a wedding website with all the details about their big day. If you don’t have one, get on it! It’s a great, simple way to keep everyone informed and in the loop. Plus, it’s the perfect place to share a link to your wedding registry.
Final Thoughts
In addition to sharing your registry information, remember to be polite above all else. Make it clear to guests that they are not obligated to give a gift. You may find that people are even more giving when they don’t feel forced into proffering presents.
Also, be mindful of guests’ budgets when creating your registry. This is especially important if you’re asking them to travel or go to other trouble for your wedding. Getting married in Maui, for example, is more costly for your guests than getting married locally. But, regardless of where you’re getting married, include items at various price points so everyone can contribute.
Finally, be thankful for anything and everything you receive even if it wasn’t on your registry. The real gift is having people who care about you enough to get you a wedding present.
