When you’re planning a wedding, you spend a lot of time thinking about what you’re going to wear. But, what about your guests? Should you provide them with some guidance (or some rules) on how they should dress? That’s entirely up to you, but whatever you decide, there are a few things to keep in mind.
Location Matters
Before you set a dress code, think about where you’re getting married. That should play a big role in how others dress. After all, you don’t want people sweating in suits if you’re getting married on the beaches of Maui. Take into account not just the temperature but also the overall vibe of your venue and your ceremony. The attire and the event should go together like wine and cheese.
Explore Popular Styles
These days, guests often want a bit more direction than “cocktail attire” or “dressy casual.” So, invest some time into exploring common wedding styles. For example, some couples ask their guests to dress in monochromatic colors, which can result in some pretty incredible photos. Others may have a theme, like vintage fashions or fashions from a particular decade. As you research different styles, think about what will make both you and your guests the most comfortable.
It’s Okay Not to Have a Dress Code
While wedding dress codes are common, they’re certainly not required. If you don’t want to put restrictions on your guests’ attire, feel free to declare your ceremony “come as you want.” Just keep in mind that everybody may not wear what you consider appropriate. If you’re okay with that, then go ahead and let everyone do their thing.
Even when you set a dress code, know that every guest may not follow it. People can interpret dress codes in a variety of different ways. Really, though, it isn’t what people wear that matters. It’s having the people you love most gathered together to celebrate you and your partner. If you can remember that, nothing else really matters.
