Should You Skip These Wedding Traditions?
Weddings and even marriage itself have changed a lot over the years. However, some old-fashioned traditions are still quite common. Of course, that doesn’t mean you have to abide by them. Read on to learn about some popular wedding traditions. From there, you can decide which ones you want to uphold and which ones to kick to the curb.
Fancy Dress
Traditionally, weddings are very formal affairs. Everyone wears their very best, especially the bride, groom, and members of the wedding party. But, with that said, some people do prefer more casual weddings. Thus, if you want formal, traditional attire, let your guests know and then go all out with your own wardrobe. If you want something more casual, though, you can specify your preferred dress code on the invitations. After all, who wants to be wearing a stifling tie on the beaches of Maui or in a less formal venue?
If the wedding party will also be dressed less formally, you may want to clue people in on that as well. That way, no one will be surprised (or appalled) when you don’t come out in a gown or tux.
Bouquets
Flowers have been a key part of weddings for a very long time. Traditionally, both the bride and her bridesmaids all carry a bouquet. However, flowers can get pricey. Plus, not everyone loves how they look . . . or the allergies they can cause. If you decide flowers aren’t for you, there’s no need to tell anyone, other than your wedding planner. Just skip them and then go on about your big day. Chances are no one is going to notice or care anyway.
Wedding Gifts
Presents are great, and they’re also a traditional part of a wedding ceremony. But, believe it or not, not all couples like the idea of being lavished with gifts. Some have been living together for a long time and already have everything they need. Others don’t like clutter or simply don’t want their guests to feel obligated to buy something. If you’d feel more comfortable without presents, for whatever reason, just let your guests know there’s no obligation to bring anything. Most of them will probably be relieved.
These traditions are just the tip of the iceberg. Weddings are positively steeped in rituals and standards. Ultimately, though, your wedding is just that: your wedding. So, keep the traditions you like, and eschew the ones you don’t. As long as you and your partner are happy, that’s really all that matters.
