Tips for a Successful Second Wedding
While no one ever plans on having a second wedding, things happen in life. You might have been widowed or gone through a divorce, for example. Whatever the case may be, though, if you’re walking down the aisle for the second time, you may be wondering about what’s appropriate and how to keep from offending anyone. Thankfully, following a few simple tips can keep everything under control and can make you feel good about your big day.
Big Weddings are A-Okay
Often, people getting married for the second time will want a big wedding or even an exotic wedding on Maui or something else considered extravagant or over the top. And, you may have heard that a second wedding should be smaller or less of an “affair” than your first wedding. But, honestly, there is no reason to punish yourself on your wedding day!
If you want to have a big wedding or a wedding somewhere special, then go for it! The only thing to be mindful of is how recent your first wedding was. If you asked guests to go to major trouble or expenses just a few years before, it may be polite to offer some help with travel or other expenses to ensure no one feels resentful. But, honestly, whether you make this polite gesture or not, know that your true friends are going to be happy for you and will go along with your second wedding plans just as they did with your first.
Registering is Okay Too
Another big concern of many second-timers is whether or not it’s okay to register for their wedding and to receive gifts. Again, the answer is yes! People are going to buy presents anyway, even if you tell them not to, so why not go ahead and register for the items you actually want and need? Furthermore, by registering, you can choose less expensive, more practical items if you’re worried about offending anyone.
Remember, your wedding day is your day, no matter how many times you’ve been married before. Be mindful of other people and their feelings but remember, above all else, that you, your partner, and what the two of you want are ultimately what matters most.
